Transparency among Childrens and Parents

The relationship between parents and children is the most precious and loving relationship in the world. When the children are small they depend on their parents for fulfilling their needs. As they grow old they become independent for their physical needs but they still depend on parents for their emotional and social needs. They have a faith on parents that they will understand their view and respect them and also help them to solve their problems. But when the parents start looking at every problem from their own point of and not from the point of view of children this relationship comes to a halt. Suppose our child comes to us and tell us that he has bunked his class today. Without understanding anything we start scolding them and sometimes even beat them. With this the children won’t stop doing such things. They will keep on doing it. But the thing they will stop is to tell each and every thing to us. He will now do it secretly. This way we ourselves spoil our relation with our children. Instead we should understand what the reasons behind his /her behaviour are and should work on that. We should make him understand the effects of his/her behaviour. So that he/she realises his/her mistake and try not to repeat it by making sincere efforts not due to the fright of parents. It is very essential to develop such a transparent relationship between parents and children as they should also get a place where they can speak up their minds and share their problems. So parents please be friends with your kids. Ask them about their routine share their problems listen to them. You will realise a drastic change in their attitude towards life and in your relationship with them.

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